Chantell, I’m so sorry to read about your experience with this man. I don’t know if he is a real “man” because I don’t think real men ghost and try to get rid of a woman close to them, no matter what the circumstance. As someone who has been ghosted herself I understand the pain you must have gone through. But yours should have been stronger since this was a longer relationship.

I just want you to know that no one can take your true self from you. The fun, energetic, loving and loyal person is part of you who are, and he didn’t appreciate it, so it is his loss.

You are not alone. Thank you for writing this piece. 🙏